QUOTE(gabriellemy @ Jan 26 2005, 08:14 AM)
now, the percentage of women as single parents...
if you happen to be responsible, wouldn't you be just a tiny bit scared this could affect your job-keeping abilities?
that you have nightmares about starving kids as a consequence of lay-off, founded on mysterious reasons?
Negotiating an appropriate salary when you interview and take a job? No, I know of a lot of women who low ball themselves consistently which costs them in the long run. If you demand a large raise when you're not in a real position of power (or as indispensible as you think), you're in a different situation.
If I were a single parent, I'd give more financially for more flexiblility (companies w/o flexibility put a single parent at risk more so than asking for a higher salary). As a boss, I go out of my way to ensure my direct reports have reasonable flexibilty - not all bosses do.
The parenthood issue is one reason why career women do have lower salaries - women who have children do tend to roll in and out of FT work (not just maternity leave, but many take a few years off) in roles of responsibility which does affect their salary and bargaining power. To claim this as unfair treatment to women in favor of men undermines those women, such as myself, that do put in the time and are expected to pick up the slack because we do not have children.