QUOTE(MrBlueSky2004 @ Feb 11 2005, 11:57 PM)
And you the same, of course.
Condoms + pill is almost unbeatable. Now, its certainly not my place to judge, but I think we would do good to, while advising about birth control, let people know that if the odds offered by the above combination aren't good enough, it really might be a wise idea not to be sexually active at the time.
I really am concerned about sexual activity in teenagers (that Katie Couric special weirded me out). I know teens don't want to hear they're not mature enough because they all think they're very mature, but there has got to be way to get the message across that there's something to be said for life experiences (outside of sex) that enhance their understanding of the world and will greatly affect their decisions (in other words, maturity), and that while sex can be great it's better to wait it's best for them to wait until they have a more life experience and are able to take care of themselves before facing the potential consequences of sexual intimacy. I think a lot of the kids who are sexually active ignore the "wait" message because it's frequently in conjunction of abstinence only education with the henny-penny hysteria (you must wait until you're married; sex outside of marriage is a sin), instead of something less judgmental.
QUOTE(MrBlueSky2004 @ Feb 11 2005, 11:57 PM)
This is also, in my opinion, an unfortunate viewpoint. Reproduction and sexuality are issues that involve men and women. These children (or fetuses if you prefer...) contain the genetic information from both partners and as such to exclude men from the abortion debate is inherantly unfair. It encourages men to take less responsibility and sends the message that they have no role in childbearing. While from a purely physical standpoint this is of course true, it should not be true from an emotional and caring perspective. I think it is unhealthy for men and women in society to relegate men to "sperm doners" who have little role after the initial act.
I couldn't agree with you more. Last December I got into a huge debate (on this forum) with someone who thought it was ridiculous that I (as a woman) would say that ideally the father should be involved in decisions regarding pregnancy. While, ultimately, the woman is the final arbiter if there's a difference of opinion (base solely on biology). The "it's my body and none of his business" attitude is extremely unhealthy. Men are affected by these decisions (even when they agree with termination, men do have feelings); I would never be so callous to say a man isn't hurt when his partner miscarries or there's a stillbirth, so how can you sumarily dismiss the feelings of all men regardless of the situation?
QUOTE(MrBlueSky2004 @ Feb 11 2005, 11:57 PM)
Furthermore, a very substancial amount of women in this nation agree that abortion should be more restricted from a legal viewpoint:
This doesn't surprise me, I think a lot of this stems from the increase in fertility problems. Women who used to be adamantly pro-choice are now having problems getting pregnant and resent women who do have abortions and/or consider them careless or selfish (despite the fact they may have had one themselves in the past that they don't necessarily regret).
QUOTE(MrBlueSky2004 @ Feb 11 2005, 11:57 PM)
Honestly, I feel it is a shame that an issue of this magnitude has been shoved under the rug. It is an issue that society should be openly debating and discussing from a scientific, factual, and ethical viewpoint, not from a political one. Once again, just my two cents on the matter.
again, couldn't agree with you more

I don't remember if you said where you are in Med School (MS3?) but I have a few questions, if you don't mind my asking:
#1 are you/will you be required as a student (or intern/resident not in an OB/GYN program) to perform an elective D & C abortion regardless of your personal beliefs? I don't recall this being a training requirement of the Dept of Medicine at the hospital I used to work at (or being required by all Med Students there) but certain organizations claim it is a requirement of all med schools and training programs.
#2 how is the revised hippocratic oath regarding abortion of "unique human life" applied? This would imply (as the pro-life movement is moving from the ensoulment argument to single-cell diploid organism) that human life does begin at conception and a proscription against termination except in cases of immminent threat to the mother's life. I'd think this is inconsistent with allowing termination based on results of pre-natal testing as well as discarding embryos based on pre-implantation testing.
#3 (this one may be too personal, so feel free to disregard since I'm just being curious) you'd mentioned if necessary, you could perform an abortion when a mother's life was imminently in danger - would you consider performing one in the case of significant genetic defect (i.e., Patau's or Edwards) or are you wise enough to avoid OB/GYN so you don't have to face those conundrums?