QUOTE(Livyjr @ Feb 19 2005, 05:35 PM)
And here, ladies and gentleman, I am serving as an "announcer", to announce the opening of a brand new venture in here, which will henceforth be known as "A.B.'s Corner", and as is my way, I will describe A.B.'s Corner as having a kind of rustic appearance, with a great big pot-belly stove right in the middle, and a bunch of straight back wooden chairs all around that stove, where people can kind of just "gather", and "listen", without ever having to say a single word yourself.
In that same "environment" that I describe in here when I was young, some "old timer" like the real A.B. in here, would get to "musing", and then, in your own mind, you would be right in there with him, so richly could those old-timers paint a picture of the surroundings!
To me, the real A.B. is like that, and so, I am doing a dedication to him here, with the opening of this new site, or thread!
My name, of course, is Livyjr, and my normal "dwelling" is over in "Life in OUR America", which is where I will continue to be found, and that is where I first "met" Mr. A.B.
Over the course of time, A.B. has made some interesting posts about events in his own time, THAT OCCURED BEFORE I WAS BORN, and I am near to sixty!
A.B. can tell me not only what was happening on the day that I was born, BUT ...
He can tell me what was on his own mind that day, and so, IF A.B. was thinking good thoughts on that day, THEN, I am the inheritor of those good thoughts, and I believe that to be the case, and thus, A.B. and I are linked, over time and space!
To A.B., I AM THE NEXT GENERATION, and so, I wish to make an example to A.B. that my generation did learn something from the travails of his!
SO!
A form of diplomacy is going on in here, which I think is a very positive thing.
And with that said, I am now going to back myself right on out of here, and turn this stage over to its rightful "proprietor", Mr. A.B.!
From the internet .....
The first day of school our professor introduced himself and challenged us to get to know someone we didn't already know.
I stood up to look around when a gentle hand touched my shoulder.
I turned around to find a wrinkled, little old lady beaming up at me with a smile that lit up her entire being.
She said, "Hi handsome."
"My name is Rose."
"I'm eighty-seven years old."
"Can I give you a hug?"
I laughed and enthusiastically responded, "Of course you may!" and she gave me a giant squeeze.
"Why are you in college at such a young, innocent age?" I asked.
She jokingly replied, "I'm here to meet a rich husband, get married, and have a couple of kids..."
"No seriously," I asked.
I was curious what may have motivated her to be taking on this challenge at her age.
"I always dreamed of having a college education and now I'm getting one!", she told me.
After class we walked to the student union building and shared a chocolate milkshake.
We became instant friends.
Every day for the next three months we would leave class together and talk nonstop.
I was always mesmerized listening to this "time machine" as she shared her wisdom and experience with me.
Over the course of the year, Rose became a campus icon and she easily made friends wherever she went.
She loved to dress up and she reveled in the attention bestowed upon her from the other students.
She was living it up.
At the end of the semester we invited Rose to speak at our football banquet.
I'll never forget what she taught us.
She was introduced and stepped up to the podium.
As she began to deliver her prepared speech, she dropped her three by five cards on the floor.
Frustrated and a little embarrassed she leaned into the microphone and simply said, "I'm sorry I'm so jittery."
"I'll never get my speech back in order so let me just tell you what I know."
As we laughed she cleared her throat and began, "We do not stop playing because we are old; we grow old because we stop playing."
"There are only four secrets to staying young, being happy, and achieving success."
"You have to laugh and find humor every day."
"You've got to have a dream."
"When you lose your dreams, you die."
"We have so many people walking around who are dead and don't even know it!"
"There is a huge difference between growing older and growing up."
"If you are nineteen years old and lie in bed for one full year and don't do one productive thing, you will turn twenty years old."
"If I am eighty-seven years old and stay in bed for a year and never do anything I will turn eighty-eight."
"Anybody can grow older."
"That doesn't take any talent or ability."
"The idea is to grow up by always finding opportunity in change."
"Have no regrets."
"The elderly usually don't have regrets for what we did, but rather for things we did not do."
"The only people who fear death are those with regrets."
She concluded her speech by courageously singing "The Rose."
She challenged each of us to study the lyrics and live them out in our daily lives.
At the year's end Rose finished the college degree she had begun all those years ago.
One week after graduation Rose died peacefully in her sleep.
Over two thousand college students attended her funeral in tribute to the wonderful woman who taught by example that it's never too late to be all you can possibly be.
REMEMBER, GROWING OLDER IS MANDATORY.
GROWING UP IS OPTIONAL.
We make a Living by what we get, We make a Life by what we give.
God promises a safe landing, not a calm passage.
If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.