http://www.stltoday.com/stltoday/entertain...fe?OpenDocumentJohn Edwards' mistress felt instant connection, friend says
By Carla Hall
LOS ANGELES TIMES
09/07/2008
LOS ANGELES -- Rielle Hunter was in a business meeting in the lounge of the Regency Hotel in New York when she saw Sen. John Edwards, D-N.C., across the room. They eyed each other.
She left the hotel, but later saw Edwards outside.
Face to face, their connection was instant. They spoke briefly, and could have left it at that. But they didn't.
Instead, they began an affair, according to Pigeon O'Brien, a friend of Hunter who said Hunter told her about that first meeting. And Hunter fell in love.
"Head over heels," said O'Brien.
The rest is tabloid history.
When Edwards admitted on national television in August to his affair with Hunter, 44, she was already notorious.
Edwards' public denial that he is the father of her 6-month-old baby girl was greeted with skepticism. Edwards said on "Nightline" that their affair began after she was hired in summer 2006 to produce Web videos of him before the announcement of his candidacy in December 2006.
O'Brien contends that the two met no later than February 2006 and started their relationship almost immediately.
In the 1980s, O'Brien became friendly with Hunter in New York. The two women fell out of touch in the 1990s and reconnected at a Manhattan party for author Jay McInerney in 2004.
O'Brien, 42, runs her own publicity company. She helped Hunter construct and maintain a Web site, beingisfree.org, which no longer exists.
But let's rewind the tape of the life that brought Hunter, nee Lisa Jo Druck, to that fateful meeting with Edwards.
Her name is pronounced "Ree -- elle" and she has been a party girl, an actress, a writer, a yoga enthusiast and a spiritual seeker.
During the 1980s and '90s, she bounced between coasts and made forays abroad, following one guru or another
McInerney -- a former boyfriend -- immortalized Hunter by using her as the model for Alison Poole, the hard-partying, promiscuous narrator of his 1988 novel "Story of My Life."
"She was thrilled," O'Brien said of Hunter's reaction to the book.
McInerney declined to talk for this story, although he did a Q and A interview with Hunter for a 2005 issue of a now-defunct magazine called "Breathe." His narrator was "inspired by Lisa," he wrote.
Hunter told McInerney that she found enlightenment in 2004 and wanted to help others find it. But she was also intrigued by fame, according to O'Brien, and titled one section of her now dismantled Web site "fame i am lives forever." She started beingisfree.org as an amalgam of spiritual musings and inspirations, but the site has vanished from the galaxies of cyberspace.
Before she got the job with Edwards for a six-figure sum, she was a hostess at Real Food Daily, a vegan restaurant in West Hollywood.
She has gone from renting rooms in people's houses just a few years ago to spending the last few months in the Santa Barbara area. As her affair with Edwards was about to explode on national television, she reportedly was whisked away from Southern California by private jet to the Virgin Islands.
In the McInerney interview, she had a "the universe will provide" mind-set.
"I have a strong desire to help people wake up -- how about for free? How I will survive, I do not know. Enlightenment is living in the not knowing."
She was born Lisa Jo Druck in Fort Lauderdale, Fla., one of four girls, and spent part of her childhood riding and showing horses.
Her father, James Druck, was implicated in a horse-killing insurance scam. He died of cancer in 1990 and was never charged. But a 1992 Sports Illustrated article chronicled the tale of confessed horse killer Tommy Burns, who said the elder Druck, a lawyer who defended insurance companies, showed him how to electrocute horses so the deaths appeared natural. Burns said he electrocuted an acclaimed show horse, Henry the Hawk, in 1982. It was Lisa Druck's horse. From 1982 to 1984, Druck attended the University of Tampa but did not graduate, according to a university representative.
When she got to New York in the mid-1980s, she partied. O'Brien was on her way to a party at a Manhattan apartment when she first saw Druck -- laughing and tumbling out the front doors with McInerney in tow.
"She was very unfettered," O'Brien said. "She reminded me of a colt just getting her legs -- exuberant, slightly unsophisticated, very post-adolescent."
O'Brien said all three ended up friends.
Hunter migrated to Los Angeles in the late 1980s. Hunter told McInerney in the magazine interview that "someone referred me to a healer who did a clearing on my energy field. I was in a state of ecstasy for about a week and realized what I was looking for, in terms of medication, was inside of me; it was a higher bliss. With that clearing, all desire for drugs or alcohol vanished. I became sober overnight. And then I became a spiritual seeker -- addicted to higher consciousness, addicted to enlightenment."
She also became "Riell." She legally changed her name in 1994, and later added the extra "e."
In Los Angeles, Hunter's pattern of dating "creative types," as O'Brien put it, changed.
In 1991, she married lawyer Alexander "Kip" Munro Hunter III, whose father was the district attorney in Boulder, Colo., during the investigation of the JonBenet Ramsey killing. They lived in Beverly Hills, and divorced in 2000, according to records. Hunter's divorce left her with $117,000 from the sale of the house. As an actress, she had small roles in a few movies. In the 1991 film "Ricochet," she's a TV reporter. In 2000, she wrote, acted in and produced a comedy film short called "Billy Bob and Them."
By 2004, Hunter was back in New York and reconnecting with O'Brien.
"She was very elegant," O'Brien said.
With her blonde hair and angular chin, she resembled a socialite.
In 2006, Hunter did not reveal much about her new love to O'Brien.
It was "John," Hunter said.
He was from North Carolina and he was married and had little children.
They gave him the pet name "Love Lips."
That spring, O'Brien said, Hunter told her she might come to St. Louis to see "Love Lips" on "April 18 and 19."
"I was watching TV and I saw something -- 'John Edwards comes to Missouri,"' O'Brien said. "I thought, 'Ohh, that's him."'
Edwards spoke at Missouri State University in Springfield on April 19, according to the school's Web ite.
O'Brien -- who never saw them together -- was surprised by her choice.
"He just really did not seem her type," she said.
Nor did having a baby seem to be on her radar.
"The Buddhist Rielle was into honesty and integrity and having an affair with a married man might have been a lark at one point," O'Brien mused, "but to move around the country and to keep a wife in the dark doesn't seem to reflect the person I knew."
Hunter has been silent, issuing a statement through her lawyer saying that Edwards is not her baby's father.
That silence was broken briefly when she called 911 to say that paparazzi were following her as she drove with her child in California.
"What is your name?" the operator asks on the 911 tape that was released.
"Rielle Hunter," she says.
"Why are they trying to take pictures of you?" asks the operator.
"Because they are trying to prove someone is the father of my baby who's not."
It was the first time Hunter had been heard in public denying that Edwards is the father of her child.